January 2009 has me thinking about the beginnings of relationships. I for one can’t stand the games and wondering for example: …“does he like me?”…. “do I call him”…”do I wait for him to call me?”…”should I Myspace/Bebo/Facebook him?”… “what does it mean when he says… ???”
I don’t know what the protocol is these days when you meet someone you are interested in getting to know. There are 100 different theories on how to act and what to do. I’ve come to the conclusion that the most aggressive/bitchy girls or the hoochie mama’s usually win out. Why does it have to be so complicated? I think the way it was done back in elementary school is definitely the way to go.
Send a note to the person you like stating check which applies:
Do you like me?
_____ yes _____no
Do you want to hang out? _____ yes _____ no
It would make it SO much easier!!! No questioning, no waiting for phone calls, no wondering if he’s “just not that into me.”
Like Drew Barrymore says in the upcoming movie; “He’s Just Not That Into You”
“I had this guy leave me a voice mail at work, so I called him at home and then he emailed me to my blackberry, so I texted to his cell and now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies….It’s exhausting.”
So for 2009 can we just go back to the simple days and stop all the complications.
2 comments:
X yes. I like you.
I'm with you on this. I am TIRED of games and was speaking with my brother-in-law about this a WHILE ago and confirmed that guys are as shallow as we think. Which is dissappointing to me, but at the same time a relief. I loved that movie too!
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